Honoring All Mamas on Mother’s Day

On Mother’s Day, it’s easy to get caught up in the Hallmark image of Mom. Even in the 21st century, the idealized mother often appears as straight, married and, if not stately or stodgy, at least mature in years.

But how many mothers actually fit that stereotype?

The Strong Families Initiative (led by Asian Communities for Reproductive Justice) is introducing Mama’s Day—a celebration of women overlooked during traditional Mother’s Day conversations:

In particular, we want to give love to those Mamas who are immigrants, single, young, queer or low-income. We know these Mamas are often at the core of our families and communities, but are often overlooked or worse—they are scapegoated by policy-makers and right-wing conservatives.

As part of that celebration, a variety of women’s organizations nationwide have been holding events all week: On May 5th in New Mexico, for example, Young Women United, a “fierce group of revolutionary women” that supports and empowers young women of color, Tewa Women United, an inter-tribal, inter-generational group of Native women and Española Valley Women’s Health participated in a three-mile walk in solidarity with midwives worldwide.

As Tewa Women United’s Kathy Sanchez explained to me, one of the ways the scientists and government bureaucrats in New Mexico have most affected women was by, during the 1950s, discouraging home birthing practices and advising women to deliver in the Indian Hospital. “Here, we were forced out of it, we were shamed out of it,” Sanchez said.

But about three years ago,  Tewa Women United began partnering with Mexican groups through the Tewa Birthing Project, which educates Native mothers to embrace home birthing and encourages young women to study midwifery, then practice their skills at home in northern New Mexico.

The Strong Families Initiative also pays respect to teenage mothers—a demographic more often villainized than celebrated—and created a music video that honors young mothers in their “strength, commitment and love in building their strong families.”

Here’s where you can share your own Strong Families stories and let the world know why you love your Mamas.

Photo from Flickr user footloosiety through Creative Commons.

Comments

  1. Jess McMahan says:

    Am I really the first one to comment on this? Anyway, I think this is a wonderful idea! I’m a proud young queer single mama of a 4-year-old and I’ve always felt left out on the overly-traditional Mothers Day. From now on, I’m doing Mama’s Day!

  2. Last time I was on this site I was praying for Phylcia Barnes’ safe return. Now I pray for justice. RIP Angel and prayers to Mrs. Sallis. No “mama” should be sitting in front of a casket so close to Mother’s Day!!! So many of us parents who have raised girls in B more know this was an inside job. B more wouldn’t throw this angel in a river nude!!!!! I lost my teen sis and my mother never recovered from this pain. Parents don’t out live children…..

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