Maglina Lubovich, Author at Ms. Magazine

Mothers of Sons Should Be Scared—of Sexism, Patriarchy and Misogyny

I’m a feminist raising boys in Trump and Kavanaugh’s America—and I’m scared for my sons, too.

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