In just the past month, the U.S. has seen a relentless drumbeat of male-perpetrated violence: mass shootings at social gatherings, a string of urban gun deaths, and one of the deadliest incidents in years: A Louisiana man killed eight children—including seven of his own—and wounded their mothers in a domestic violence massacre. Then there’s the multi-year investigation into sexual assault allegations involving United Farm Workers cofounder César Chávez, along with the political fallout surrounding former U.S. Reps. Tony Gonzales and Eric Swalwell.
This is a call to action for men. Nearly a decade after #MeToo emerged, reports of abuse by powerful men continue to surface at alarming rates.
How can so many of us stay silent in the face of an ongoing epidemic of men’s sexual and domestic assaults against women—including rape? Enough is enough. We have to do better.
Breaking that code is essential. It means men calling each other out in locker rooms, workplaces, offices and private conversations. It means redefining loyalty not as protecting other men, but as protecting those harmed.
The question is no longer whether we understand the problem. The question is whether we men are finally willing to confront it in ourselves.