I grew up around women who were wed while they were still children. My grandmother was married at just 10 years old and my aunt at 16. At school, friends of mine married. I watched their schooling stop, pregnancies that came too soon, choices made for them rather than by them. Relatives would ask, gently but pointedly, when I intended to do the same, as though delaying it only put off something inevitable.
What haunted me then still haunts me now is how ordinary everyone around us made it seem.
That ordinariness is how child marriage has survived for so long in the United States. California has now banned it. On Sept. 30, Governor Gavin Newsom signed bill AB-1267, setting 18 as the minimum age for marriage with no exceptions.






