‘We Stand With You, Megan’: Feminist Leaders and Women in Music Rally Around Megan Thee Stallion

“Violence against women is still entirely too common and acceptable in our world.”

Megan Thee Stallion at the 2022 iHeartRadio Music Festival at T-Mobile Arena on Sept. 24, 2022 in Las Vegas. (Matt Winkelmeyer / Getty Images for iHeartRadio)

The Southern Black Girls & Women’s Consortium has published an open letter in partnership with several influential women in government, music, social advocacy and more in support of rapper Megan Thee Stallion, and denouncing violence against women.

The open letter comes in response to the backlash and notable spread of conspiracy theories surrounding Megan Thee Stallion following her 2020 allegations that fellow rapper and former friend Tory Lanez had shot her multiple times in the foot. In April, the 27-year-old “Savage” hitmaker painfully recounted the event to Gayle King during an exclusive interview with CBS This Morning.

According to Megan, on July 15, 2020, she had attended a party at the house of reality TV star and friend Kylie Jenner and left that night in a car with Lanez; Megan’s then-close friend Kelsey Harris; and Lanez’s personal driver/security. Allegedly, following an argument between Megan, Lanez and Harris, Megan requested the driver to pull the car over:

“I asked the driver to pull the car over like, ‘I’m done with this’… And it was like ‘Megan, just get back in the car, we almost there, like just get back in’. So I get back in the car, it’s like it’s getting worse… the arguing in the car is getting worse and I don’t want to be in this car no more…, so I get out the car and it’s like everything happens so fast and all I hear is this man [Lanez] screaming ‘Dance bitch’ and he started shooting”

“I didn’t even want to move, I didn’t want to move too quick… Because I’m like ‘Oh my god, if I take the wrong step, I don’t know if he can shoot something that’s like super important, I don’t know if he can shoot me and kill me’… I was really scared [for my life]”

Immediately following the incident, Megan was taken to the hospital and questioned by police. Although she claimed to the police that she had only stepped in glass (she says that initial claim was because of fear that the police would kill her and the others with her in the wake of the then-recent murder of George Floyd), the official medical report claimed to have found “major bullet fragments” in her feet.

In the two years since the shooting, many in the media, especially those in the hip-hop community, have spread multiple stories and theories against Megan in defense of Lanez, who had pleaded not guilty to assault and weapons charges related to the shooting. The Grammy-nominated Canadian artist himself has added fuel to the fire against Megan by claiming that he had a sexual relationship with the Houston-born rapper and she was lying about being shot by him. Other major figures in music, including Drake, claim she made up the story for publicity and a boost to her career.

Megan has denied any romantic or sexual relationship with Lanez. “I think he is trying to deflect from the fact that he committed a crime,” she said.

She was eventually granted a restraining order against Lanez, which he has allegedly broken numerous times. As of the publication of this article, Lanez is on court-ordered house arrest awaiting trial for the charges stemming from the shooting against Megan, as well as a separate incident in which Lanez is accused of punching a man in Chicago back in September. According to Superior Court Judge David Herriford, the 30-year-old “poses a danger to society and has a pattern of defying court orders, while noting that the defense’s response counters that there was insufficient evidence that a battery had even occurred.”

Recently, rapper Drake released a collaboration album with 21 Savage called Her Loss, which included the song “Circo Loco,” on which Drake allegedly made reference to Megan, accusing her of lying about the shooting for “clout”:

“This bitch lie ’bout gettin’ shots, but she still a stallion / She don’t even get the joke, but she still smilin’ / Every night late night like I’m Jimmy Fallon”

The open letter—signed by influential and powerful feminist leaders and trailblazers such as Rep. Maxine Waters (D-Calif.), #MeToo founder Tarana Burke, and Alexis McGill Johnson of Planned Parenthood—references Megan’s “strength” during this time of public harassment and ridicule.

Read the full text here:

Dear Megan,

You are larger than life in many ways; your name is in lights, your face on billboards, your songs in the history books … and this is still just the beginning of your story. In a very short amount of time, you’ve achieved success probably beyond your wildest dreams, and it seems that each day brings a new announcement about something amazing you’ve done or are preparing to do. Women all over the world consider you an inspiration, in part because you make them feel good about themselves. You’re a special kind of talent and a special kind of person; the place you hold in your fans’ hearts is a testament to that.

As you’ve risen to the top, you’ve also had to endure a lot of obstacles along the way. In the face of triumph and tragedy alike, you always keep your head held high, maintain your poise, and push forward. However, while so many of us celebrate you for your strength and perseverance, it must be said that you have been treated in ways that no young woman–no person at all–should be treated.

It must be said that our culture has failed you, one of its most brightly shining daughters. In July of 2020, you experienced a violation of the highest order at the hands of someone whom you considered a friend. Since then, you’ve had to endure public harassment and taunting not only from that person but from others choosing to stand with him. Bloggers have circulated rumors and excitedly reported on the most traumatic experience of your life as if it were juicy gossip, often perpetuating the idea that you’ve got a reason to lie, that you shouldn’t be believed. You’ve consistently been clear about what happened to you, but instead of being met with widespread support, people who should have had your back have chosen to stay out of the matter.

You don’t deserve any of this, Megan. You deserve to be heard, to be believed, and most importantly, to be safe.

There is no amount of power or prestige that can prevent a woman from becoming a victim of violence and there is no level of achievement that exempts women from our society’s complacency with that violence.

You may be a boss, the “hot girl coach,” and a bonafide superstar, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t experience pain. No one is too ‘bad,’ too famous, too powerful to feel hurt. You’ve had to navigate this deeply difficult experience in the public eye, and while you’ve managed to stand strong and to keep showing up to work in spite of it all, it can’t be understated how unfair it is that you’re in this position to begin with.

Violence against women is still entirely too common and acceptable in our world. We make excuse after excuse to explain away even the most heinous acts, especially when the person accused is a celebrity of any sort. Being a celebrity, however, will not guarantee a woman any sympathy when she is a victim.

Black women are also often fearful of what will happen to their assailant if they choose to involve the law — as you yourself were afraid to do — and are left unprotected by the system and the community alike. If someone as influential as you can be belittled and mocked as nothing but a liar for standing up for herself, that speaks a volume about what a woman who doesn’t have your resources or fame can expect to endure when she’s found herself in a similar position.

An estimated one in three women worldwide has been the victim of sexual and/or domestic violence. Here in the United States, the numbers are higher for Black women, who also experience psychological abuse — such as humiliation, name-calling, and insults — at an increased rate. Women of all races, cis and trans, are suffering daily and we’re all too complacent. From day one, you deserved a chorus of voices saying, “We believe you, Megan,” and though you may not have been able to hear us sooner, know that we are with you now and every step of the way as you continue to heal from this tragedy. We are committed to making the world safer for you and all women, and one of the important steps that we must take to get there is to make it so that women who have been victims of violence can speak about their experiences without being attacked or dismissed.

You’ve been so strong, Megan, but that’s not what we should demand nor expect from you. You deserve the space to cry, mourn and heal as you see fit without having to worry about being judged for having a human reaction to a personal tragedy.

Even in the midst of your own traumatic experience and healing, you recognized that other girls needed to experience joy and partnered with Southern Black Girls and Women’s Consortium on the inaugural Joy Is Our Journey tour impacting thousands of girls across the south. You have remained committed to the focus of mental health and well being in our community even when your own has been minimized, marginalized and deemphasized. We want you to know that you are important and you matter to us and to millions of women around the globe. Your life matters. Your work matters. Your joy matters. You deserve joy. We stand with you.

We salute you for the bravery it has taken to defend yourself in the court of public opinion, though you shouldn’t have had to do so at all. We raise our voices against those who have made light of this heinous example of violence against women and will drown them out with our demands for society to take what happens to Black women seriously. You are not alone. You are believed, loved, and supported.

We stand with you Megan.

Dr. Brenda Allen, Lincoln University PA
LaTosha Brown, Southern Black Girls & Women’s Consortium
Laura Brown, LB Media
Tarana Burke, ‘me too’ International
Ethel Cain
Taylor Crumpton, Cultural Critic and Writer
Dr. Tiffany Crutcher, Terence Crutcher Foundation
Allisa Findley, Sisters of the Movement
K.C. Fox, Sisters of the Movement
Angella Henry, DJ Henry Dream Fund
Marc Lamont Hill, Temple University Professor/Journalist
Jessica Jackson
Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee, Chair, House Judiciary Crime Committee (Tx. 18th)
Renee Jarvis, Triangle House Literary

Alice Eason Jenkins, Southern Black Girls and Women’s Consortium
Michelle Kenney, Antwon Rose II Foundation
Felecia Lucky, Black Belt Community Foundation
Tamika D. Mallory, Until Freedom
Alexis McGill Johnson, Planned Parenthood Federation of America
Margo Miller, Appalachian Community Fund
Carmen Perez-Jordan, The Gathering for Justice
Angela Rye, IMPACT Strategies
Dr. Topeka K. Sam, The Ladies of Hope Ministries, INC.
Beverly Smith, SiriusXM
L Joy Williams
Congresswoman Maxine Waters (D-CA), Chairwoman of the House Financial Services

We at Ms. also stand by Megan Thee Stallion and continue to root for her.

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Red Rosenberg is a former intern and current contributor at Ms.They are an autistic nonbinary lesbian. They prefer to go by they/them pronouns. They graduated from Los Angeles Pierce College in June 2020. They hold an associate of arts for transfer degree in journalism and two associates of arts degrees for arts and humanities, and social and behavioral science, respectively. They have previously worked at Pierce College's Bull Magazine and Roundup Newspaper.